When choosing out of a relationship,
make sure you're not taking the problem with you.
--Darel Rutherford
To solve your relationship problem, you must first change your perspective on the problem
Miraculous and instantaneous changes can happen in a relationship as a result of using the Power Pause for changing your own attitude and perspective.
But it's not really a miracle; it's principle in action --a spiritual law--The Law of Correspondence.
Once you change who you are BEING,
everyone in your reality must adjust to the new you.
--Darel RutherfordThe Power Pause is a three step process for taking charge of your thinking. You'll learn about it in Chapter 11 of BEING THE SOLUTION. The Power Pause works based on the principle, "We become what we think about."
This simple visualization process allows you to change who you are BEING in a way that cuts past your ego's natural resistance to that change. When you change who you are BEING relative to the perceived problem, your problem will simply dissolve and disappear.
The Power Pause is not the means by which you can cast a spell on the other person and get them to change. The problem is not with them, it's with you.
The Power Pause works its magic by changing who you are BEING relative to what you have perceived the problem to be. The other person's change will be in response to the BEING change in you, and your problem will seem to have solved itself.
You have the power to change your reality. You've always had that power, but now you have the tool for implementing the change you want. It's called the Power Pause. So use it!